Cast of Characters
The Butterfly Temptress- submissive, mother, daughter, sister, abuse survivor, writer(of this blog & many other things)
The Knight- Husband, Dominant, lover, man of my dreams(not perfect but perfect for me)
The Girls- My babies, my life, my reasons for being
The Guys- His babies, the sunshine & laughter in my world
Mama- My mother, my best friend, a stellar example of beauty & strength
Dad- My father(technically my step-father, but the only Dad I’ve ever had)
The Sister- My younger sister, my opposite in every way
Sperm Donor- My abusive biological father, no longer a part of my life
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I like to think that I am just your average fat bisexual submissive housewife with a heart of gold. When I'm not battling cancer I can usually be found tackling the joys and pitfalls that come with being not only an ex-wife and a mother but also a sexual abuse survivor. I believe that healing is possible even when it comes to sex lives. And when our house finally falls silent at the end of the day I chronicle my journey for the world to see. My writing covers everything from relationships and marriage to sex advice pieces and sex toy reviews.Soon I hope to begin podcasting and other collaborative projects. And if you didn't know it yet, I'm a comment and email junkie, so don't hesitate to drop me a line.