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I chose the Hi-Tech Bullet Collection to review because it looked like the perfect combination of toys. A g-spot stimulator and a small bullet vibe for clitoral stimulation. This combination also boasted independent controls for each one, so I was really excited to give it a try.

It arrives like all packages arrive and that’s a good thing. A plain white box with only my name and shipping information makes me very happy. It’s always been one of the things I liked best about Edenfantasys.

By now we all know how I feel about batteries. They’re a pain. They’re bad for our environment. The fact that this toy required four for the controller was ridiculous. Why can’t people just go green like Lelo already? {Let me pause here to state, for the record, that I am very interested in reviewing more Lelo toys for this reason and many others!} So, I loaded the batteries and we took the toy to bed.

The bullet vibe intended for clitoral stimulation was okay. It didn’t move mountains for me. Not by a long shot. It’s very small. Think mini-bullet rather than standard bullet or egg. However, since my husband and I try toys together, I did use it on his man parts. That was a big hit. Not as big as the Nea but he enjoyed it. Since there are so few toys that men can enjoy, that fact keeps it on the list to try again.

The g-spot stimulator was nice. It was kind of short but it did indeed stimulate my g-spot. The velvety soft finish that was touted on the website was good. It’s different than plain hard plastic, which is a bad thing in my book, so the material was a nice change of pace. The vibrations were good for a g-spot stimulator, not too intense just intense enough to work their magic.

One of my peeves with this toy is the length of the cords running from the controller to the toys themselves. To say that they’re short really doesn’t do it. Let’s say they’re extremely short and say we’re being generous. To use the toys together I had to practically bend myself in half. Now, I can do that, but who wants to? Maybe if your partner is using the toys on you like my husband eventually did, then you’re okay. If you’re using them for solo play, good luck.

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Not too long ago Edenfantasys proposed that I write a few pieces for them detailing what it’s like to deal with cancer. As a sex toy company they were definitely interested in how the cancer diagnosis had impacted our sex life and my sexuality but they were also interested in knowing how it changed my life and my marriage as a whole.

I read the email and asked the questions that I thought of. Then I sat back to think about whether or not I was willing to lay bare my soul in quite this way. Yes, I blog. I blog about sex; I blog about cancer. Blogging about how those things really feel or how they truly impact the most important aspects of your life is something completely different.

Then I realized that maybe this was something that needed to be written about. Why? Of all the articles on the Internet that I read or found myself directed to, very few mentioned the effects of cancer, chemo, or radiation on a woman’s sex life. I didn’t know when all of this started if it was normal to still desire my husband much less need to have an orgasm. I had no idea what to expect or what was normal. But I didn’t understand why no one had written about it.

So, I started writing. I wrote an article and I cried the entire way through. Another article took me three days to write. Other pieces and parts of articles came easily and they made me see myself in a different light.

Just before they started posting my articles on their blog I received an email asking me to set up a PayPal account and provide them with a button for donations. Edenfantasys had decided that they would match any donation made between then and November 18th. I was absolutely shocked and overwhelmed. So, I did as they asked.

Now, Catalina and the commUNITY at Best Sex Bloggers have decided to keep the articles going. Soon you will be able to read the articles there in their entirety. It’s amazing what happens when people pull together and I am honored to be a part of something so wonderful, to call many of them friends.

So a little time has passed and now you will notice a donation button in my sidebar. I swore I would never have one. To me, it’s an honor that you visit my site and read what I write here. However, some people have expressed concern about knowing that their intended donations reached the person, etc. With a donation button linked directly to an account specifically for this purpose, people can rest assured that their donations are going where they want them to go, if they choose to donate.

This is an odd place for me to be. I’m used to being the one who sets up donations for people. Families who can’t give their children a proper Christmas. Coats, blankets, and meal vouchers for homeless men and women in DC. Care packages and handwritten letters for men and women serving their country in Iraq and Afghanistan. There are many other things that I have organized and been a part of; things that warmed my heart and nurtured my soul in ways that no one will ever understand.

To be on the receiving end of an amazing gift is indescribable and I thank all of you from the bottom of my overflowing heart.

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This review is brought to you courtesy of EdenFantasys.

Everyone knows I’ve tried a lot of toys. From the Lelo Nea to the Clit Kiss, I’ve been around the block a time or two. I’ve even given the Silver Bullet a shot.

My next item on the review list is Jenna’s Rocket Booster. I’ve heard loads of good things about pocket rockets. Most women love them, swear by them, would marry them if possible. So, it made sense to give one a go.

It arrived in plain packaging which I have to love. Edenfantasys has a great shipping policy so it arrived quickly and without unwanted attention. We know the neighbor lady watches for what arrives at our door, so yes, plain packaging is a win.

At this point, I had no idea what to expect. I saw the pictures and I knew it was promoted as a vibrator but short of that, I knew nothing. So when I opened the box and saw the size, I was surprised. It looked too small to be a standard vibrator but too big to be a clitoral vibe.

I loaded the vibe itself up with a battery then added batteries to the controller. It was surprisingly powerful but not very noisy. Quiet toys are awesome in a house full of kids, so that fact alone made it one for the preferred for future use list.

So the husband and I took it to bed with us that night. I couldn’t figure out if the cap was supposed to stay on or not, so we used it both ways. It was more powerful than the Nea but not as powerful as a silver bullet. It wasn’t enough to get me off, but it was more than enough to get me going.

My husband thought it had a nice feel to it when I used it on his man parts. That’s another bonus for me since we play together. The highest setting was too much but all the rest felt good to him. Even if it’s not marketed as a couples toy, it’s nice to find another one that we both can enjoy.

All in all, it’s a decent product. It feels solid, like something that will last beyond the first two or three uses and it’s easy to handle. Even if it uses batteries (which I don’t like because I know how important it is to be environmentally conscious) it’s still a nice addition to our collection. It all comes down to personal preference, but I’d recommend this product.

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This sex toy review is brought to you courtesy of Edenfantasys where you will find all the high quality sex toys your naughty little heart desires.

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When I first heard about Lelo and their line of incredibly feminine, high quality sex toys, I was so excited. Though they had plenty to offer, only the Nea really seemed to call to me. So, naturally I couldn’t resist the offer to review it.

The package arrived in a plain box, which was nice. Discreet is a good thing where I live, not only in our neighborhood, but in a house full of children with prying eyes. Just one more reason to love Edenfantasys!

The Nea itself arrived in a beautiful package. A black box with a shiny finish only cemented my belief that these people knew what they were doing. Inside the glossy black box was a matte finish box, not unlike one that watches come in. Very classy and very easy to open, which is hard to come by in this age of plastic that requires scissors and the strength of Hercules to open.

When I lifted the top off the box, I was shocked. The Nea was so small! Now, I’m a big girl with lots of curves, so I was a little skeptical. I usually prefer toys with some substance, some oomph.

I plugged it into the charger and spent a few minutes stroking it lovingly. The glossy black color with the pretty pink flowers was absolutely divine. The LED buttons were ingenius and well placed. I pressed them just to see if it was really as quiet as they had claimed and it most certainly was!

We were finally ready to try it, but as luck would have it, not in the traditional way. Instead, I used it on my husbands testicles and I stimulated him orally. Imagine my surprise when he climaxed immediately! He said the vibration was not too powerful, not too annoying, but was the perfect balance for his sensitive man parts. (It’s good to know what our partners think of our toys!)

I tried it myself with my husbands assistance and it was nice. I say nice, because it was just enough. Not enough to send me over the top to an intense climax in record time, but enough to stimulate my clitoris and feel really good.

In all fairness, if you prefer intense clitoral stimulation, this is probably not the toy for you. If you do however, like pretty toys with overtly feminine design and the convenience of a recharger, with just enough vibration to get you ready, this is a toy for you.

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